after the housing crash of last week, i’ve been turning Hope over, like a rock in my palm. we’re working with a second lender, have emailed our reems of financial stats in for speculation. & now we’re waiting. hope, yes. hope, no. hope, well, how DO we hope?
the thing is, i want to hope we will be allowed to buy the small cabin. but there’s war in me: if i hope & then we’re denied again, doesn’t that train wreck me? again? isn’t it easier to keep the bar low? to work on my contentment instead? contentment is spiritual, right?
hope is scary, it’s uncomfortable, & i don’t like it.
we went to church, a couple days after our damning verdict, & I SWEAR the message was for exactly me. Bob talked about building their 18.something million dollar campus 10 years ago, how they had a hard time getting a bank to mortgage them. then he said this & i got chills,
nothing is ever easy. you think if it’s God’s plan it’s going to be easy. it’s not easy. nothing is ever easy following God.
aha! yes, that’s it. there is nothing easy about this. the sheer amount of time we’ve put into thinking about what’s going on, grief. it all feels so dark & mysterious. like we’re writing up our dreams in a dark closet at midnight.
but then there’s all of you, climbing out of the fray to encourage us, offer us housing, even volunteer to babysit our chickens. i cannot tell you how loved we feel. how supported & surrounded. i may have cried a little.
maybe Jesus gives us the gift of crisis so we can know with more than our heads how loved we are. how we are never, ever alone. how we are so much more alike in our differences than we thought we were.
& somehow, andy & i have wandered into a waiting place that isn’t uncomfortable. as he showed me the four thousandth craigslist house today, he said to me, “i’m almost excited.” i am, too, & for once, it’s not bound up in a solitary destination. that’s kind of a relief.
so, we don’t know a thing more, except everything that truly matters:
we are loved.
we are on a right path (even if we can’t see it.)
& we will be okay.
thank you for helping us know that.
if you need some medicine, you can share some of mine.
if you want to give Wise Bob a listen, go here.